As my wife and I were arranging our wedding Nana was very keen to see who was on the guest list, as we hadn't planned on inviting many distant family members. "But you'll be inviting Auntie Pat" she said, matter of factly, "she's the only person that I want to be there". I laughed - thinking of myself and my wife to be, my mum, my dad, my sister etc etc who might all be pretty important to the wedding. Nana was straight to the point as ever and I assured her Auntie Pat was on the list. I wouldn't have heard the end of it if she wasn't.